so xavier is 3 now and i love that he can do a lot for him self. he is so independent and in the process of potty trianing. He is to the point were he can tell me when he has to go. now if i can only get him fully potty trained by the time the baby comes then i can put him in pre-school. i think he realy needs the socializing. some days i look at my son and wonder how i could be so lucky to get such a wonderful kid. he is for the most part very good and listens to me. i just hope my luck hasnt run out with our 2nd baby.